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Let's be honest, anyone with any sort of mental health problem has probably received discrimination about their problems at least once. You may think, "oh mental health problems are too common for there still to be stigma surrounding it." Well, yes, you're right. Mental health problems are common, but there's still them stupid idiots that don't actually understand anything about mental illnesses and feel the need to judge you for it.

Here, have some stats that I'm about to throw in your face.

  • 1 in 4 people will experience a mental illness at some point in their lives.
  • 1 in 10 young people experience mental health problems.
  • Depression affects 1 in 12 of the entire population.
  • Rates of self-harm in the UK are the highest in Europe at 400 per 100,000.
  • 450 million people worldwide have a mental health problem.
  • Nearly 3 in 4 young people fear the reactions of their friends when they talk about their mental health problems.
450 million people worldwide have a mental health problem and people still feel the need to judge. Excuse me whilst I come over there and slap you really hard in the face. That's ridiculous. Don't get me started on getting a job. Trying to get a job whilst having a mental health problem is the worst thing, when you fill out the equal rights form they ask if you have a disability or a mental illness, I know I definitely don't make a point of putting that on my job application. Not because I'm ashamed or anything like that, but because the majority of employers are the type of people that'll discriminate against you hard for having a mental illness. And don't even get me started on if I had a panic attack whilst at work, my employer would see/hear about it and I'd get chucked straight away. Yes, we sign the 'equal rights' form so that people believe the employer isn't going to judge you, but we all know what a load of crap that is. I mean, you go to an interview and it's between you and another person. You're suffering from a mental illness that your possible employer knows about and the other person has a mental illness but hasn't told the employer, who do you think is going to get the job? It's wrong, but the person that didn't tell the potential employer.

People also believe that people with mental illnesses might just come up to you and attack you in the middle of the street? Hahah, no. Most people with mental illnesses won't have the confidence to even walk up to you, let alone attack you. People with mental illnesses are more likely to hurt themselves than you.

The media. Oh golly, the media. The media like to make up all sorts of nonsense regarding mental illnesses and they're 75% of the problem and are putting thoughts into people's heads.
Here, have some more statistics regarding mental health and the media:

  • Over a 3 month period 74 programmes contained storylines on mental health issues of these there were 33 instances of violence to others and 53 examples of harm to self 
  • Almost half were sympathetic portrayals, but these often portrayed the characters as tragic victims 
  • the most commonly referred to condition was depression, which was mentioned 19 times, breakdown was mentioned 8 times and bi-polar 7.
  • 63% of references to mental health in TV soaps and drama were "pejorative, flippant or unsympathetic" terms included: "crackpot", "a sad little psycho", "basket case" , "where did you get her from?", "Care in the Community?" and "he was looney tunes"
Like come on, for gods sake. Imagine walking past someone that's aware of your mental illness for one reason or another and you get called a 'sad little psycho' or a 'basket case'. That's not okay. Newspapers are also good examples to use, they pretty much all the time describe people with mental illnesses as 'violent', 'criminals', 'shouldn't be allowed in the community', 'they're evil'. Oh god, sorry, to me that sounds like you're describing a serial killer, not a normal person in society who has a few problems going on in their head. Society nowadays actually disgusts me.

I went to the doctors a few months ago regarding anxiety medication and the doctor asked me if there's any background of mental illnesses in the family, and my mum told him that she'd suffered from depression before and her mum had a few mental illnesses. And do you want to know what his response was? "That's fine, that's absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. It's like you telling me your family has a history of high blood pressure or diabetes or something." He was probably the nicest doctor I've ever seen regarding my mental health. I've seen a few doctors who've just shrugged me off their shoulders and turned me away. It's doctors like them that aren't worth working for the NHS, they aren't giving people the help they need. Here's another example, I went to the doctors regarding my past problem with Trichotillomania (the act of pulling ones hair out), all I wanted to know is if there was anyone I could see about it or anything and the exact words of the doctor were "come back when you have bald patches all over your head." I'M SORRY, I'VE JUST APPROACHED YOU LOOKING FOR HELP AND YOU'RE GOING TO TURN ME AWAY AND GIVE ME THAT 'OH WELL YOU LOOK OKAY THEREFORE NOTHING CAN BE GOING ON IN YOUR HEAD, DON'T BE STUPID' CRAP? For some mad reason, that doctor no longer works at the doctor's surgery I go to and specifically asked not to see him ever again regarding any of my doctor's appointments. Back to the point, that first doctor was completely right, mental health problems are nothing strange or weird, it's exactly the same as having high blood pressure or a problem with your joints, only the people with problems with their joints don't get crap for whatever it is that's wrong with them.

This has been the rantiest rant I've ever written on this matter and it felt good to just write it all down. I hope the statistics were of some use and you understand that mental illnesses are nothing to be feared in society.

Thank you for reading,
Rachel. xo
04:08 6 comments

1. Naked 3 Palette by Urban Decay. - £37.
The colours in this palette are absolutely gorgeous, I love the idea of the rose gold tones in the eyeshadows, also, who doesn't need another Naked palette in their collection?

2. Artist Palette for Eyes by Laura Mercier. - £36.
To me, this is the most perfect neutrals palette, all it needs is a black and it would be the only palette I'd need in my life, haha! Laura Mercier single eyeshadows are great so I'd like to think the palette would be great too!

3. Kick-Ass 2 DVD. - £9.99.
So, this movie holds a lot of memories for me. I went to see this movie at the cinema when I visited Joe in Essex in Summer this year and it was just a great day. The Kick-Ass movies are up there in my top 10 favourite movies of all time so, this is a must have for me.

4. Evil Eye Silver Bracelet. - £1.19.
I recently bought the matching necklace of this bracelet to wear on Christmas day which can be seen here, I'm debating whether to get the matching bracelet though, obviously since it's coming from China it won't be here in time for Christmas. I just think it'll look really nice with my new circle lenses, I don't know.

5. Vice 2 Palette by Urban Decay. - £37.80.
This is the most beautiful palette I've ever seen. The colours are perfect. There's only two of the colours that I probably wouldn't be able to find a way to make a look out of it but 2/20 isn't bad!
All of the colours in this palette are exclusive to the palette and you can't buy them in single eyeshadow form so that's good I suppose!

6. MAC Lipstick in Up The Amp. - £12.15.
Unfortunately, it's currently out of stock. The MAC lipsticks sell like hot cakes on the Debenhams website, everytime I go to look for the lipstick I want, it's 9 times out of 10, always sold out. :-( I might end up paying the £15 for it from the MAC website, I'm not sure yet though.

7. Pug Eyes iPhone 4 Case by Urban Outfitters. - £12.
This is the cutest phone case, I've been on the hunt for either a pug or cat face phone case for ages! For me, £12 is a bit expensive for a phone case, most I've ever spent on a phone case is £5 and that was a 3D Spiderman case, haha!

8. LA Lakers Slippers - £26.99.
I've been really into wearing slippers lately, I probably can't justify spending nearly £30 on a pair of slippers though but oh well, they're adorable! They also match my Lakers Skullcandy earphones, aw. They just look so cosy, can I have them now pleaaaase?

9. The Lion King Charm Bracelet by Disney. - £15.
As an obsessed Disney lover, I feel that this needs to be a part of my life or else I won't know how to function, haha! How adorable is it though?! This is part of the Lion King Musical collection though (hence there's no cartoon Simba to be found). 

Let me know what you guys have on your wishlists this month!
That's all for now.
Rachel. xo
13:40 1 comments

How many hours a week do you spend planning/writing/uploading blog posts?
On an average week, I'd say about 2+ hours planning blog posts. 1-2 hours editing photos. 1-3 hours writing and uploading. So about 7 hours.

Are you a spender or a saver?
Definitely a spender, the moment I have any money in my bank account I have to spend it. It's probably not the best way to live, but oh well!

When is it easiest for you to write blog posts?
I basically just have so much free time lately that I just write them whenever I can, haha! Usually evenings though, I'm more relaxed in the evenings.

What makes writing posts comfortable for you?
I like writing blog posts in the living room for some reason, I like to be near people when I write them as I can get feedback from them before I publish the post. If my mum doesn't like the blog post, it won't get published, haha!

What's your worst makeup/hair habit?
I dye my hair far too much which has now lead my hair to be in awful condition. I also leave way too long to clean my brushes, gross I know but I'm lazy.

What's one quote you wish the world would live by?
I have no idea. Maybe "The world is a dangerous place to live; not because of the people who are evil but because of the people who don't do anything about it." - Albert Einstein.

How long do you spend getting ready?
Not including a shower. 15 minutes for make up, 15 minutes for hair and 10 minutes getting dressed. 
So just under an hour.

What's your favourite post on your blog?
I'd say my two mental health posts have got the most attention and such a good response. In the way of beauty related posts, probably my Undress Me Too Palette review, it was my first blog post and my favourite blog post of them all.

Who is a beauty blogger that you think deserves more subscribers than they have?
Definitely Vanessa of Citron and Guavaberry, she just produces the funniest beauty posts and for a lot of beauty bloggers, you don't get that sense of comedy in their posts. If I were you, I'd follow her if you love Doge references. ;o
Also, Charlotte of Girl in My Mirror, she's just a lovely girl and produces some great posts! She's been in the blogging world around the same amount of time as me so yeah, follow her please!

What's one thing you're excited about in the coming year?
I don't know, not a lot at the moment. I haven't really made any plans to do anything this far in advance. I'll probably go on holiday with the family, so that'll be fun.

What's been your favourite blogging moment?
Probably getting to 30 overall followers. I was pretty shocked that I'd even get up that amount after only a month of blogging, so yey!

How long does it take to prep for a blog post?
Depends what kind of post I'm doing. If it's a review, about an hour as I have to take pictures, edit them, upload them. If it's a mental health post about the same amount of time as I have to make sure all of the information is correct. And for a tag like this, none at all, just brain power.

Are you wearing jeans/skirt right now, or are you wearing pyjama bottoms?
I'm currently wearing pyjama bottoms as I like to be comfortable when blogging.

What are you most proud of in your life?
I'm not entirely sure. I suppose, attempting to face my fears. I may not have succeeded but I tried and that's all anyone can ask of me. :-)

I tag everybody that's reading this right now!
So, go go go.

That's all for now,
Rachel. xo

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20:29 4 comments
So movies and video games are my favourite things to spend my money on, why? Because you can pretty much keep them forever. So when I was let loose with £60 CEX store credit and £20 in cash, you know what I did. Might I just say, CEX is the worst company I've ever had to do business with, their customer service is absolutely awful, their staff are useless and ugh. THEY EVEN MISSED AN ITEM OFF MY ORDER, which is why you're not seeing Pokemon Mystery Dungeon: Explorers of Time for the Nintendo DS in this photo, because the idiots forgot it. So without further adieu, here we gooooo.


(L to R) Saw Quadrilogy (Saw, Saw II, Saw III and Saw IV), Mallrats, Let The Right One In, Let Me In, Happy Feet, American Dreamz, Aladdin, The Mighty Boosh Live, This Is England, The Shining, Tangled, Bioshock (Steel Tin Edition for Xbox 360), Bioshock 2 (Xbox 360), The Legend Of Zelda: Phantom Hourglass (Nintendo DS) and Lego Lord of The Rings (Nintendo DS).



Saw Quadrilogy - £6 from CEX.
I absolutely adore everything Saw, it's probably one of my most loved movie franchises. For £6 I thought this quadrilogy was an absolute steal.

Mallrats - 99p (+£1.20 for P+P) from eBay.
Jay and Silent Bob are basically my favourite characters ever. I've just adore all of the movies that they appear in and they just make the movies they're in like 50 times better. Mallrats is just hilarious and I highly recommend it.

Let The Right One In - £1.27 from eBay.
So I've been looking to get this DVD for ages but I was umming and ahhing about it for months because I wasn't sure I'd enjoy it and that's purely because of the subtitle situation (this film is in Swedish so), I haven't got round to watching it yet but I've heard good things. When I last went up to Essex to visit my friend Joe, he had LTROI and Let Me In on his DVD shelf and he told me they're both really good so why not.

Let Me In - £1.90 from eBay.
I knew as soon as I saw this film for under £2 that I was going to buy it. Chloe Moretz is one of my favourite actresses and she's in this film so there was no way I could not buy this. I'm really looking forward to watching this. This is the British-American remake of Let The Right One In so that means, Chloe Moretz and no subtitles, woo!

Happy Feet - £1 from eBay.
So I basically just bought this to replace my other version of this DVD which my sister decided to snap in half when she was in a mood with me, not cool, Hannah. Happy Feet is the cutest film ever if you're into singing and tap-dancing penguins, this is the film for you.

American Dreamz - £1 from eBay.
American Dreamz is a great film and I needed the DVD version of this film to complete my Hugh Grant collection (yes, I own every single one of his movies on DVD, don't judge.) All I'm going to say is, it's a comedy about a singing talent show and politics, if that hasn't intrigued you I don't know what will.

Aladdin (Music Masterpiece) - £5 from CEX.
Aladdin is my favourite Disney movie tied with The Little Mermaid and Tangled so when I saw this for £5 I had to grab it, which is such a great price considering it's the special edition musical masterpiece edition. I don't know what you're doing with your life if you've never seen Aladdin. I feel for you, I really do, haha.

The Mighty Boosh Live - 99p (+£1.10 P+P) from eBay.
Well, to start off with, the seller actually sent me the wrong DVD, they were meant to send me The Mighty Boosh Live: Future Sailors Tour DVD but instead sent me the original 2006 live tour DVD, which I didn't mind so much considering it was only like £2, now if I'd have spent £6 on it brand new or something I probably would have complained, haha.

This Is England - £3.19 from eBay.
This Is England is up there in my favourite movies list, I've seen it on TV a few times but never got round to owning it on DVD and was rather disheartened when the day I ordered it, I look on US Netflix and it was on there. :-( So really, I probably didn't have to spend £3 on the film because I'm sure it's going to stay on Netflix for a while.

The Shining - £2.50 from CEX.
The Shining is my favourite book ever and the film version is just as good as the book, it hadn't been shown on Film4 or Sky Movies in a while and it wasn't on Netflix so I just had to buy this.

Tangled - £8 from CEX.
Okay, so kind of expensive considering it's pre-owned and you can get it on Amazon brand new for £7 but I mean I had £60 of store credit to use and I was basically desperate for this film on DVD so.

Bioshock (Steel Tin Edition for Xbox 360) - £5 from CEX.
Not a bad price considering CEX were selling the normal edition for £5 also, so why not spend the same amount on a prettier looking case, haha. This is another game that Joe had recommended to me, he's literally obsessed with anything Bioshock so I thought I'd buy Bioshock and Bioshock 2.

Bioshock 2 (For Xbox 360) - £4 from CEX.
£9 for both Bioshock games is not bad so I just had to buy them both. I can't wait to play them as I've heard so many good things about them and yey.

The Legend of Zelda: Phantom Hourglass (for Nintendo DS) - £12 from CEX.
Yet again, another incredibly overpriced item from CEX, I hesitated buying this because I could get it brand new for £12 elsewhere but as I said earlier, I had store credit that needed to be used up by 5th December so.

Lego Lord of The Rings (for Nintendo DS) - £10 from CEX.
I'm getting the feeling that CEX really like to overcharge people but hey ho, store credit right, haha.
Lord of The Rings are great films and a video game version in Lego form has to be good right?

That's all for my DVD and video game haul,
I hope you enjoyed it.
That's all for now,
Rachel. xo




10:13 2 comments
So last week I did my 'how to recognise a panic attack' post and I'm thinking about doing a weekly mental health related post as it got a pretty good response last time.
This time round I'm going to be discussing depression and how it can affect your motivation.

So, depression can take a lot out of you. You may not want to wake up in the morning and you may want to stay in bed all day... Everyday. This is just one of the symptoms of depression. You'll often feel exhausted, overly-tired and just very rough.
Lack of motivation can actually make you feel much worse as you'll lie in bed all day doing nothing and at the end of the day you'll go "oh crap, I didn't actually do anything productive today." As someone who doesn't go to college, doesn't have a job and has no means of transport, this is something that's been happening a lot recently so I thought for my sake and for the sake of others, I'm going to make a list of things you can do to try and be a bit more motivated.

Now I'm going to tell you ways of getting yourself off that sofa and doing something a bit more productive, you'll need to start off with baby steps though:

  • Playing video games, reading a book and writing can actually be really motivational, you may have no motivation to get out of bed but if you do any of these things, I suppose you're achieving something whether it's meaningful or not.
  • Start a blog, that's what I did. Again, this is something that some people may not think is exactly motivational but it's something to be proud of if it becomes successful. I try my hardest to do blog posts almost daily (depending on my mood) and if I complete 5 or 6 blog posts in a week I feel like I've achieved something.
  • Set yourself a list of chores. So you may be sat there thinking 'why would I do that, I hate housework'. Yes, that may be, but if you complete a list of chores you will often be rewarded in doing so. Receiving rewards and praise is a great way of becoming more motivated.
  • Think positively. If you're not thinking positively, you're going to be in a slump all day which isn't going to help with your motivation problem. If you think positively, you're going to be much more pleased if you do something productive with your day.
  • Make a playlist. Make a playlist of songs that make you happy and make you want to dance around your room all day. That way you're going to be getting yourself out of bed. Music can also help when doing housework, I find doing chores much easier if I have music playing really loudly, haha. For me, it's extremely cheesy 80's pop songs.
  • Get into a routine. Set yourself a time to wake up, get up, have breakfast, get ready and get on with things that need to be done.
  • Don't be disheartened. If you're reading this now and thinking 'YES I'M GOING TO DO ALL THE THINGS TOMORROW' and you wake up and feel awful, don't be disheartened, there's always tomorrow. Things like this take time to get used to if you've been lacking motivation for a while. Start off easy like reading a book and work your way up to going out and doing the weekly shop or whatever.
  • Exercise. You get on that Wii Fit board that's been hiding away in the cupboard for months or whack out the Zumba waistband and you do those dances. Exercise is a great way to become more motivated. Things like Zumba are great because it's fun and you're making your body feel better.
  • Don't sleep too much or too little. I can't say anything about sleeping too little. I'm the worst at the step. I get to sleep at around 5am and then wake up at 2:30pm and there's the majority of my day gone. If you're like me and just can't sleep, taking 3/4 of a Nytol tablet will knock you out within 15 minutes and you don't wake up with the Nytol hangover. If you're to take a full tablet before bed, be warned, you will wake up with all the symptoms of a hangover in the morning,
I think that's about it for this post! I hope this helped one of you. :-)
That's all for now,
Rachel. xo
01:30 4 comments


So I'm going to start off by saying, there won't be any photos in this post as my camera is broken and I feel because it's a only a review of a moisturiser, the majority of moisturisers are the same in colour and texture so (white & a cream texture).

I'm going to start off by saying, this is one of the best day creams I've tried. It really is a rich moisturiser. For someone who might have oily skin, this would be perfect as a light night cream also.
I went nearly a whole 2 months without moisturising because I just couldn't find a good moisturiser, my skin was literally flaking off, it was so dry. (Obviously I was exfoliating twice a week so that kind of helped but after exfoliating, my skin was just so dry.) Then this great little moisturiser came into my life. It does what it says on the tin, it moisturises, which is more than I can say for some moisturisers I've tried in the past. It doesn't have an oily consistency, meaning it's good for people with combination oily/dry skin.
It contains natural almond oil and hydra IQ. It's always good to have natural ingredients in skincare.
There is only one thing that miffs me off about it, it's usually around £5-£7 in Boots unless it's on offer and you end up using a lot of this stuff and as it's sort of in the mid-range section for skincare, I'd expect a bit more product, but hey ho, I can get over that when Boots has such great offers on it all the time.

I'm just so pleased with this day cream and I've already bought another 2 tubes of this stuff.
Sorry it was such a short review, there wasn't really a lot I could say about it except it's great, haha.

That's for now,
Rachel. xo
15:14 No comments
So, this blog post has been long awaited. I feel now is the right time to do is as I've been awake for most the night having on and off panic attacks. I'm just going to explain what is a panic attack, what are the symptoms of a panic attack, how to recognise if someone is having a panic attack and how to cope when having a panic attack yourself.

What is a panic attack?

Official definition: Panic Attack - A sudden overwhelming feeling of acute and disabling anxiety.
A panic attack is caused when our body reaches the highest level of anxiety it possibly can. You have a panic attack when your body goes into fight or flight mode (your body goes into this state when it feels you're in a particularly dangerous situation.) When the body goes into fight or flight mode it lets off a huge rush of adrenaline in your body, this is the start of a panic attack.

Symptoms of a panic attack / how to recognise if someone is having a panic attack:

I have panic attacks on an almost daily basis and it's one of the most awful things I've ever experienced physically and psychologically. But don't worry, you won't die. I say this because one of the most awful psychological symptoms of a panic attack is feeling like you're having a heart attack or that you're going to die (sounds silly but even though I know I'm not going to die because of a panic attack, I still think about it). The reason why you're not going to have a heart attack or die mid-attack is because there's just so much adrenaline going round your body, your brain won't have time to shut down all of your organs as it's trying to focus on all of the other physical symptoms that's going on at the same time.
Physical symptoms include:
  • Heart palpitations / irregular heart beats.
  • Sweating.
  • Trembling.
  • Hyperventilation (which leads to lack of oxygen in your body.)
  • Dizziness.
  • Nausea (which can sometimes lead to vomiting.)
  • Feeling faint (this usually comes when your panic attack is coming to an end as your body is just so exhausted.)
  • Choking sensation.
  • Numbness / pins and needles (most common in fingertips.)
  • Needing to go to the toilet.
  • Shaking.
Psychological symptoms include:
  • A feeling that you are losing control and are going to die.
  • Your surroundings seem completely unfamiliar.
  • Needing to escape from whatever situation you're currently in at the time.
For it to class a panic attack, you will usually have 4 or more of the physical symptoms and 1 of the psychological symptoms. Panic attacks will only last 5-20 minutes but can happen more than once if you're in a constant state of high anxiety.
If you see someone in the street with any of these symptoms, don't straight away assume 'OH GOD THEY'RE HAVING A HEART ATTACK CALL AN AMBULANCE'. Try not to ask them questions as they will find it extremely hard to speak whilst in that current state. First try and calm them down and help them with steadying their breathing. Once they're breathing steadily, the other symptoms will sort themselves out. If after 10-20 minutes their breathing is nowhere near steady, that's when you should  worry and should call for further medical advice.

Trying to prevent a panic attack / coping mid-attack:

I can only speak from experience here, if I have a panic attack that just comes from nowhere and I have no physical warning beforehand, there's no way I can stop it from happening so I have no options for helping you prevent a panic attack in that situation. What I can help you with however, is if you are in a high state of anxiety and you feel like you're about to have a panic attack, KEEP BREATHING. Don't allow your anxiety to take over your breathing, keep your breathing at a steady pace before the panic attack starts, hey, sometimes it stops the panic attack from happening all together (on the rare occasion.) If you let your anxiety take over your breathing, you're likely to become very distressed and that can often make the attack much worse. My dad has recently been keeping paper bags from the chemist that medication comes in so that when I have a panic attack at home, I have a paper bag to breathe into to help steady my breathing, it's sort of helpful I suppose. In extreme cases you can request an oxygen mask from your doctor, I hate the idea of carrying an oxygen mask everywhere with me though, I'd feel so self-conscious whacking out an oxygen mask in a public place, haha, but that's just my opinion.

I really hope this has helped at least one person, that's all I was aiming for with regards to writing this blog post. 

Thanks,
Rachel. xo
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